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Connectfulness Practice


Aug 9, 2019

“Healing from white-body supremacy begins with the body — your body. But it does not end there. In order to heal the collective body that is America, we also need social activism that is body centered. We cannot individualize our way out of white-body supremacy. Nor can we merely strategize our way out. We need collective action — action that heals.”

— Resmaa Menakem, My Grandmother’s Hands

 

Rebecca is joined by healer, author, and trauma specialist, Resmaa Menakem. Resmaa helps people, communities, and organizations find strength and healing that’s both holistic and resilient. He’s authored 3 books and today’s discussion is centered around his most recent: My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies.

Resmaa shares that in order to mend racialized trauma we need to move the conversation from race to culture and cultivate a somatic abolitionist mindset and community. And a big part of that work lies in doing our own reps to learn what to pay attention to and then doing the reps with each other’s nervous systems so we can create a culture that knows what to pay attention to. Otherwise it’s just strategy.

As you’ll discover, the wisdom within the book is ancestral, it has always existed and was both nurtured and drawn out of Resmaa by his elders over a long period of time, through repetition, through admonishment, through being held, and loved, and corrected. 

This interview was recorded in July 2019, before the shootings in Gilroy, CA; El Paso, TX; and Dayton, OH.

 

Listen to the entire episode to discover your own valuable insights and understanding on this topic and please share it!

 

Resources:

Connect with Resmaa: https://www.resmaa.com

 

FREE E-COURSE!! https://www.resmaa.com/courses

 

Purchase Resmaa’s books Here! https://www.resmaa.com/books

 

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If you’re local to New Paltz, NY and are interested in the deep community work Resmaa guides us into in My Grandmother’s Hands, contact Rebecca so we can coordinate local meetings.

 

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Root in with Rebecca’s Connectfulness® Collective for therapists in private practice at: connectfulness.com/collective

 

We’re calling together 6 women for a deep collective, Wisdom Within, process group with Rebecca. We begin September 2019 in New Paltz, NY.

 

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